Women are a walking temptation to men. Many of us want to see all the boobs. This wasn't our idea. There is no upside to wanting to see the tits of women who don't want us to see their tits. We can certainly pretend we don't want to see your boobs. Only sneak peaks, or wait until we're wearing sunglasses to take a look, or maybe even have an aneurysm trying to avert our gaze from some visible cleavage. But if the solution is "Why can't men just stop viewing women as sexual objects?" The answer is because that's how we were intelligently designed. It's not fair. It's not women's fault. It's not men's fault. It's just how it is.
An anecdotal tale related to this. I had surgery a few years ago, and had to take some pain meds for a couple weeks. A side effect that hit me was it killed my sex drive. It was pretty wild to just not be interested in women for a while. Just a switch being turned off. But a takeaway, was that it's a chemical thing. We keep figuring out more and more that people don't have a choice in who they are, but over and over again, we still deny it in other circumstances, because it's just easier.
I don't know what the solution is, but I know the current strategy isn't going to work. Shaming people for who they are rarely has positive results.
An anecdotal tale related to this. I had surgery a few years ago, and had to take some pain meds for a couple weeks. A side effect that hit me was it killed my sex drive. It was pretty wild to just not be interested in women for a while. Just a switch being turned off. But a takeaway, was that it's a chemical thing. We keep figuring out more and more that people don't have a choice in who they are, but over and over again, we still deny it in other circumstances, because it's just easier.
I don't know what the solution is, but I know the current strategy isn't going to work. Shaming people for who they are rarely has positive results.
