Very short version of the long argument.

[bennyboy]

Sir, I see a contradiction between the 1st sentence and the 2nd. Do I need to elaborate?

Yes.

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I elaborate on them, people say too long. I make it short, and people want elaboration. There is no pleasing you guys. I support them in length and people are like o man he has to write so much. I make it short and people are like, where is the elaboration to support. 

Listen to your girlfriend when she tells you size doesn't matter. What matters is that you are ready to give her what she needs. Nor does it matter if you work away for ten minutes or ten hours-- your clumsy efforts just aren't going to get her there.

"Goodness" is a subjective label, a placeholder for whatever pleases. You can't come into contact with it, or get to know it, because it isn't a thing. Nor do all your futile stabbings in the dark bring any of us closer to it.