(October 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: He says he uses it regularly, to the point of his wife taking issue, and admits he may have a problem. Plus, he has a 2 week old baby in the house. That kinda tells me everything i need to know right there.
But he also says:
(October 7, 2017 at 11:24 am)Won2blv Wrote: She did work with me but every fight started because of me using weed. I'm not even denying that I might have a problem, but as long as I was able to function in my day to day life, I figured it was safe. And I was. I managed my business and didn't cause any strife in my life.
Long story short, me and my wife have continued marital problems that are all centered around her not wanting me to use weed
So is it actually the weed that is the problem or the wife who has the problem with the weed? We don't know but the OP has specifically stated that the weed use in itself hasn't caused any problems, just how the wife views it.
(October 7, 2017 at 1:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Moms of new borns can't be smoking pot "regularly". There's no reason why the dad who has just as much responsibility to his child, should be either.
Irrelevant. My husband can't eat wheat yet I still do. I now have to give up all dairy, meat and saturated fats for medical reasons but I don't expect him to as well.
It only becomes relevant if the cannabis use is stopping him being responsible for the child but not once has the OP stated this. If this is indeed the case then yes, I agree that he should stop it.