Our server costs ~$56 per month to run. Please consider donating or becoming a Patron to help keep the site running. Help us gain new members by following us on Twitter and liking our page on Facebook!
Current time: June 9, 2024, 3:41 am

Thread Rating:
  • 0 Vote(s) - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist?
#32
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist?
Anecdotal, and all joking aside...but you guys haven't heard me say anything that my wife hasn't...and she's heard some even choicer bits that won't fit here for being squarely against whatever loose rules we have.  She appreciates that I don't couch myself in saccharine terms and sweet nothingisms...it shows that I respect her enough as an equal not to believe that she's too fragile for mean words to be spoken about religion in her presence.  It;s not like I have to have the smelling salts at the ready everytime I crack a -seriously- nasty comment about god beliefs.

As a bonus, she knows me better than she would if I offered non-confrontational platitudes. What she was raised in and who I am are in direct confrontation - ignoring that would have been disastrous for our family.

(November 15, 2017 at 1:30 pm)Crossless2.0 Wrote: I don't think this requires a Big Reveal or anything like that. It's not like you're telling her you have genital warts. If it comes up and you're unsure about saying 'atheist', then identify as a rational skeptic and leave it at that.

Could totally work that in though.

"I don't believe in that..but look on the bright side, I don't have genital warts!"
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
Reply



Messages In This Thread
Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by erealmz - November 15, 2017 at 3:03 am
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by Cod - November 15, 2017 at 6:01 am
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by Cod - November 15, 2017 at 6:50 am
RE: Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm an atheist? - by The Grand Nudger - November 15, 2017 at 1:31 pm

Possibly Related Threads...
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
  How should an atheist react to discrimination? Der/die AtheistIn 21 2803 March 26, 2019 at 9:14 pm
Last Post: The Grand Nudger
  Possible girlfriend?? Manowar 30 5025 July 26, 2018 at 6:05 pm
Last Post: The Grand Nudger
  Atheists, tell me, a Roman Catholic: why should I become an atheist? Balaco 596 96072 June 14, 2017 at 3:26 am
Last Post: Omnisofos
  Don't tell a Religious person "There is no God" Heat 46 8483 October 25, 2015 at 2:48 pm
Last Post: Mikazuki
  How should I go about telling my parents that I'm atheist Ghost2282 12 3358 February 15, 2015 at 11:25 pm
Last Post: Pyrrho
  My girlfriend is a scientologist.... I'm not... Giorgos.vr 31 6859 December 14, 2014 at 9:07 pm
Last Post: dyresand
  Who do you tell you are atheist? Sedna 43 7305 October 24, 2014 at 12:35 pm
Last Post: Dystopia
  My girlfriend got discriminated by some of her family MJ the Skeptical 27 5063 June 7, 2014 at 10:29 pm
Last Post: Wyrd of Gawd
  Why tell anyone? John V 53 9765 April 13, 2014 at 5:21 am
Last Post: Fidel_Castronaut
  How to tell parents I'm an atheist Creeper23782 63 15097 April 4, 2014 at 7:38 pm
Last Post: Phatt Matt s



Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)