Well I guess since you asked for opinions, here is my, probably unpopular around here, opinion...
Best option: Go to counseling and fight for your marriage. See a sexologist as well. She's not treating you badly, she's not abusive, she's not cheating on you, you claim to get along well. So, with those in place, stick with her "through better or worse" of the rest of it. You know, like you promised.
Crappy option: Divorce your best friend of 25 years because sex is lacking.
Crappiest option of them all: cheat on her.
Best option: Go to counseling and fight for your marriage. See a sexologist as well. She's not treating you badly, she's not abusive, she's not cheating on you, you claim to get along well. So, with those in place, stick with her "through better or worse" of the rest of it. You know, like you promised.
Crappy option: Divorce your best friend of 25 years because sex is lacking.
Crappiest option of them all: cheat on her.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh