RE: Divorce questions/thoughts
December 18, 2017 at 2:37 pm
(This post was last modified: December 18, 2017 at 2:41 pm by mlmooney89.)
(December 17, 2017 at 11:37 pm)Macoleco Wrote: I would say if you are willing to go through the stress of a divorce. You have no children so thats a plus. And this is a personal opinion, but if your wife does not care if you have an affair, I would say she does not love you, as a partner at least. If love is important to you, then this may be another reason for you to divorce.
I would say stay single for a while after the divorce. Dont move with the other woman at least for some time.
Saying she doesn't love him just because she lets him have an affair is a little presumptuous wouldn't you say? Just because it's not traditional doesn't mean it's not love. I love my husband more than I can imagine but we have played in the open relationship field. Allowing your love to be physically satisfied elsewhere is a personal decision and not everyone thinks it's bad.
I still think divorce is the answer myself because consensual affairs are tricky but it is an option if you really believe she is ok with it. You get to keep your best friend and get sex. First and foremost boundaries and lots of conversations are needed. Always check in that everyone is still ok with events and everyone needs to be fully honest. If all play by the rules open relationship can be fun and sexy.
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