RE: Men's Rights Movement
December 21, 2017 at 1:43 pm
(This post was last modified: December 21, 2017 at 1:45 pm by Edwardo Piet.)
(December 21, 2017 at 1:35 pm)Tiberius Wrote:(December 21, 2017 at 1:23 pm)Hammy Wrote: Well, it's not just egalitarians that believe the latter though. It's the true feminists that believe the latter too.
True feminism is defined by what feminism actually is, not by people who claim to be supporting women's rights but then think stuff that has nothing to do with women's rights (like denying them the right to be a sex worker???? How is that pro women's rights? Denying a right is not pro rights. I mean fair enough if they wish to deny EVERYONE rights as a sex worker but to deny women a right and not men and to claim to be pro women's rights... doesn't make any sense at all).
Claiming to be a feminist but not being fully women's rights doesn't make you a feminist. Being anti-male rights doesn't make you a feminist. Being pro women's rights makes you a feminist. Denying women certain rights and claiming you're still fully pro women's rights doesn't make you truly a feminist just like claiming to be a Christian but not following Jesus Christ or the Bible won't make you a Christian.
I'm both an egalitarianism and an actual feminist. I don't see any point in not being a feminist when I'm an egalitarian. If I wasn't pro women's rights I wouldn't be pro-equality. I'm pro men's rights too but men don't need a group fighting for their rights because the very fact that feminism started in the first place is because men alright have more rights than women.
Unfortunately Hammy, there's disagreement over what "true feminism" is. See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_m...ideologies
This is part of the problem. New Age feminists believe that sex workers have a right to do their work. Older forms of feminism believe that any kind of sex work that involves male customers simply enforces male dominance over women, and that women are more often than not coerced into sex work. See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_v...ostitution
They don't see abolishing sex workers as taking away women's rights, they see it as freeing women from male oppression. That's the problem.
Well they're simply wrong because as long as the men aren't actually oppressing them then they should have just as much of a right to be a sex worker as men should.
It would make sense to be a feminist and deny women such 'right' if you genuinely believed that in every case that women are sex workers men are always oppressing them. Because you'd be denying women even more rights (and freedom) by allowing them to be oppressed that way.
But there's a such thing as being right about these things, it's not like it's all fair game on who gets to define what being pro rights and who isn't. Some opinions actually are pro rights and some aren't. Not all opinions are equal on this matter. ( “All opinions are not equal. Some are a very great deal more robust, sophisticated and well supported in logic and argument than others.” ― Douglas Adams, The Salmon of Doubt) and 'feminists' who think that men are always and by definition oppressing women if women are being sex workers are simply deluded.
They might think they're being pro-women's rights by pushing their delusion that female sex workers are necessarily always exploited and oppressed but the fact they think they're being pro-women's rights doesn't mean they actually are if they are in fact denying women rights and freedom for no good reason.
(December 21, 2017 at 1:36 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote:(December 21, 2017 at 1:32 pm)Hammy Wrote: It does still have meaning because there's more to feminism than being about legal rights
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It's about equality but it's specifically about the fact women tend to get the short end of the stick unofficially despite the fact the law says otherwise officially.
The fact that feminism is a more important as a movement than egalitarianism is for exactly the same reason that the Black Lives Matter movement is more important than an All Lives Matter movement. When Black people still regularly get the short end of the stick it trivializes their difficulties if we instead insist on pushing "all lives matter". I mean, duh, of course all lives and all races matter. But the point is that Black people still tend to get the short end of the stick.
It's exactly the same with egalitarianism. Technically it is correct: Equality is ultimately what matters, duh. Just like all lives, and all races, matter, duh. But instead of pushing the obvious equality value it's important to focus on the fact that women still tend to get the short end of the stick: Hence why feminism and BLM are more important movements than egalitarianism and ALM.
I totally agree with you that movements are needed to draw attention to areas of disparity in society, and that adopting a vanilla "everyone should be equal" mantra kind of de-emphasizes the areas of greatest inequality. I just think in this specific instance of this label (feminist), it's impossible to determine the motives/views/goals of an individual that uses it based on the word 'feminist', so it might not be a very useful label.
It's probably only becoming a less useful label because anti-men feminists who believe in far more than just feminism are pretending like all they're about is feminism and too many people are taking these so-called 'extremists' (it's not the feminism part that's extreme) wayyyyyy too seriously.
