I had a response typed and it disappeared - hate it when that happens lol.
Anyway, you'll need to find your own way; I think you've already made your mind up about what to do.
Having been out in the dating world with a few men who were in various stages of relationship breakups, I can say that dating someone who still has one foot in their prior relationship is no picnic and those dating relationships have always ended quickly.
Your old flame deserves your full attention, not a partner who is distracted by the unfinished business of ending their long term marriage.
Regardless, kudos to you to getting your physical health back. Being healthy will go a long way toward helping you make wise decisions and I hope everything works out for you.
-Teresa
Anyway, you'll need to find your own way; I think you've already made your mind up about what to do.
Having been out in the dating world with a few men who were in various stages of relationship breakups, I can say that dating someone who still has one foot in their prior relationship is no picnic and those dating relationships have always ended quickly.
Your old flame deserves your full attention, not a partner who is distracted by the unfinished business of ending their long term marriage.
Regardless, kudos to you to getting your physical health back. Being healthy will go a long way toward helping you make wise decisions and I hope everything works out for you.
-Teresa
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