(January 15, 2018 at 3:24 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: OP: Somehow I doubt that you are/were forced.
UGGGGGG.........
Why are people missing my posts.
You can focus on that word all you want, and you can argue RIGHTFULLY they were not forced.
It still has nothing to do with mental health issues. THE OP was STILL wrongfully making it about Rednecks when the real issue is mental health. Nobody should say they should not deal with it, even though you are right that they are not forced to.
MY issue is those with mental health issues CAN BE WRONG, but the mental health issue itself is not a political party or State issue.
NO the OP isn't forced, but that still does not address it was wrong to place blame on region or political party or state, in response to a lagit concern.
The person they are dealing with has mental health issues that lead to that behavior.
My advice is if you have to remove them, get legal advice first. BUT also see if you can get them professional help even if you want them out. Dumping someone out on the street may make one feel good and relieve your own stress, but if they have no help, all you are doing is making it a bigger problem for the rest of society.
NO NO NO NO NO, I am not saying leave things the way they are. If the OP wants them out, it is understandable. But when you do that, see if you can get law to help them, social services to help them. It sounds like this person needs help the OP can't give them. I simply am saying if you RIGHTFULLY boot them, at the same time try to find help for them in a professional setting. Nobody should excuse what they are doing.
I hated myself for the way I lived and feared discovery constantly. The stigma and fear is horrible to live under. I was at least lucky enough to live by myself and owned my house to not have to fear punishment from law. But the stigma of judgment is still there.
I am not advising the OP to keep other's problems or placate them. I am saying as I said before, that those kinds of behaviors are not political, state or class based and can affect anyone.
