RE: Forced To Live With An Obnoxious Person
January 15, 2018 at 5:21 pm
(This post was last modified: January 15, 2018 at 5:22 pm by drfuzzy.)
(January 15, 2018 at 2:42 pm)Brian37 Wrote:(January 15, 2018 at 2:37 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:
(January 15, 2018 at 1:18 pm)drfuzzy Wrote: What Capn said - how are you "forced"? If it's your house, can't you kick him out? If it's his house, can't you move? (Sorry if I missed something here, had to skim the post, gotta run . . . )
I've known people like that - you have my sympathy.
I think everyone is missing my prior post.
Yes it is true, if your name is on the deed, or rental contract, you can use law to get someone out. In most cases though, you cant simply kick them out, but have to file a claim to a court to get them removed. YES even if it is your own house.
NOT MY POINT. Not even saying you should have to put up with it.
I AM SAYING that when someone lives like that, AND I HAVE myself, gotten to the point of living in a dumpster, MY OWN HOUSE, it is not a matter of politics or region. It is mental, and lots of things can fuel that behavior. Addictions and or depression.
I took issue with the blame of "rednecks". I MYSELF let my house get out of control and it at one point looked like a documentary dumpster. I didn't vote for Trump nor was I raised in a Red State.
When I did live with my mother, or had a roommate I did a far better job keeping things clean. MY FRIEND JOHN, whom lives BY HIMSELF, in Norman Oklahoma, is a liberal Redneck, but he maintains his apartment quite well.
This person has mental issues regardless of whom he blames. AND AGAIN, not saying one has to, or should put up with it. My point is mental health problems are not a party or state issue, and can effect anyone of any party or any state.
Brian, relax! -- And your post came after mine.
I saw the redneck, white trash references in the OP. I bristled at them too but didn't have any time to ask more than the question.
I understand poor housekeeping from a depression point of view. I've been there.
His "roommate" sounds mostly entitled to me. Somebody who has always had someone cook and clean for him, and never taught to do these things himself.
Heck, in jail he probably didn't even have to wash dishes or clean. Yes, the person could have mental issues and labeling him as "stupid white trash redneck"
is unhelpful. Or he may just be spoiled and lazy.
But I'm still curious about why Mega sounds so trapped.
"The family that prays together...is brainwashing their children."- Albert Einstein
