RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
March 22, 2018 at 12:30 am
(This post was last modified: March 22, 2018 at 12:33 am by Edwardo Piet.)
(March 22, 2018 at 12:09 am)Khemikal Wrote: I cut off a relationship with someone I really liked because she couldn't have kids, so that's something I've done before that might have determined whether or not I was going to stay involved. I guess that wouldn't matter much anymore since I got all the kids I wanted and now I'm looking to auction them off to a saudi prince if that can be arranged.
The thing is, that would apply to an infertile ciswoman equally.
Being turned off by a transwoman because they're infertile is fine. Being turned off by a ciswoman because they're infertile is fine. Being turned off by a particular transwoman because you happen to not be attracted to them is fine. Being turned off by a particular black person because you happen to not be attracted to them is fine. Being unattracted to all transwomen you've ever met in your life, because you happen to have not been attracted to any of them ever in your life so far is fine. Being unattracted to all black people you've ever met in your life, because you happen to have not been attracted to any of them ever in your life so far is fine. Being unnattracted to all dudes because you've never been attracted to any dude ever so far in your life is fine. Deeming yourself a hereosexual because you've never met a dude you've ever been attracted to is fine. Being unattracted to a transperson because they're trans, or unattracted to a black person because they're black, or unattracted to a dude because he's a dude or unattracted to a cis person because they're a cis person, or unattracted to a woman because they're a woman... none of that is fine, or even genuine. We are attracted to people or objects as they appear to us in this world (both physically and mentally) and pretending like we objectively like the particular essence of a person that doesn't exist or we have some kind of chromosome fetish or racial DNA fetish or whatever.... all of that just reeks of phobia.
Sure, okay, maybe there's 0.0.0.0.0.01% of the population that actually has a chromosomes fetish or a DNA fetish or whatever. Some people also have a car fetish and literally fuck exhaust pipes (there's been documentaries about that). But 99.999999999% of people are attracted to.... people. Or at least people's body parts or even toys that resemble them.... not chromosomes or DNA strands. I wouldn't call a chromosomes fetishist a bigot after discovering that someone had different chromosomes to they thought when that was really what got them off the most "Mmmmm chromosomes. Gets me so hard"..... but for me to pretend like everyone in the world is a chromosome fetishist (if they even exist at all... they're probably rarer than people sexually attracted to buses or airplanes. I mean, this is a molecule fetish we're talking about).... for me to pretend like everyone in the world who gets turned off after discovering someone is trans or black or whatever, because they're trans or black or whatever (both are equally irrelevant just like being cis or white is), and not because of how they appear to the person's senses and how their body genuinely responds.... I mean... do I even have to explain this further?
