(April 11, 2018 at 2:46 pm)mlmooney89 Wrote:(April 11, 2018 at 2:37 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Mooney Whats your rules?
If one of us wants to play outside the relationship they have to be willing to let the other do so as well.
The other party has to approve of the person.
The person must be clean and you can't go off what they say.
Protection is a must, no believing a woman is on birth control or trusting in it solo.
No relationship with the person. Meaning no going to dinner, movie, etc. You aren't dating you are just screwing. If feelings start developing the person is now not allowed. (This has not happened, if anything our other play makes us go back to each other saying how much they are still the best we've had)
Everyone has to be ok with everything at all times. The moment someone isn't things stop.
Out of curiosity, how do y'all find people like this? I mean like, how do you bring up the subject to someone you might wanna have a sexual relationship with? Since peiple will default to assuming you're unavailable since you're married, I've always wondered how the conversation starts lol.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh