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I completely missed out on that part of my human development. Growing up, sex with a disability just felt like a taboo. I have kissed three girls, but this was all when I was 15. 42 now.

Like Jormy, I feel like my fantasy life is quite rich. I do fantasize a lot, and do enjoy fetish websites and such. Especially those that aren't just picture banks, but message boards, where we can all discuss whatever part of sexuality excites us at that moment. Sometimes I feel like I go overboard with it. But maybe it's just me getting my release a different way.

As I get older, I want a relationship less and less. I don't want kids (I can physically have them. I just don't want them). And marriage seems harder to maintain than in previous generations. And I don't want sex outside the confines of a relationship. YMMV. Just a personal thing. I do support how in Canada (Vancouver, at least) there are therapeutic sex providers (I think that's what they are called), who literally help the disabled get off. Again, just not my thing. Great service, though. This part of all of our lives is important.

Hmm, interesting. What are your fetishes?

I'm gonna make a few guesses and you gotta tell me if I'm correct. I'm thinking it's either bondage or the one fetish where they wear animal costumes.

Haha! Close. 

So, with my disability, I spent lots of time in surgery from birth until maybe 16. So I was exposed to many things medical. Medical fetish (or medfet for short) is indeed an umbrella of fetishes. Mine is rather specific, and doesn't even relate to my own disability. Some people have a nurse or even doctor fetish. Mine is for female patients in masks (and whatever they are normally wearing, which could be anything from a modest schoolgirl kit [not one of those slutty ones] to footed pajamas [not an animal costume, including those Japanese "kigurumi" onesies that have no feet, but a hood, often in an animal theme]).

*sees myself out*