(May 22, 2018 at 9:35 am)Aegon Wrote: My girlfriend and I met in Washington DC. I'm from NY and she's from SC. Im going down to visit her for the first time. Well apparently she has a friend who immediately asked whether I was Christian; when she said no (something that doesn't bother her) they told her it could never work and she could do better.
I found that pretty hurtful and disgustingly judgmental. How do people judge others based off their religious beliefs so easily and harshly? Before they even know them? And of course now I automatically dislike them, which may not be fair either.
Being from NY I never really felt too much pushback for being an atheist outside of my immediate family, so this was very shocking to me. Guess i need to get out more
we are told not not be unequally yoked with non believers simply because their disbelief will always put a strain on the relationship between us and God and us and out spouces... not that we are to divorice a non believer if we later convert, it just life will be easier if we marry someone who shares the same world values as we do.