I'm in this club too so hugs to both of you. It truly is a horrible thing to have to live or even relive. It's happened to me as a child and as an adult.
I shared one of my situations two years ago on here and you want to know what I got for it? One person who posts regularly, gave me the
emoticon several times while blaming me for being raped because I didn't report it. I think that same person even asked if it was really rape since I didn't report it. Someone else who also posts regularly here, decided to save my post for whatever twisted bullshit reasons they had and then reposted it in a different thread earlier this year, in a very weak attempt to make a point that had nothing to do with what that thread was about.
So, ladies, while I applaud you for coming out and sharing your survivor stories here, always know that your posts will be saved and quote mined in the future and that there are rape apologists on this site who will, no doubt blame you for what you went through.
It's a shitty thing when a sexual assault happens. No one should ever have to go through that sort of ordeal, let alone be made to feel like absolute crap simply because they didn't report it. To be called a liar or have your experience treated as though you deserved it or to have your experience thrown back in your face - no one deserves that. Only the scum of the earth would think to stoop low enough to use your experiences against you or blame you for what happened to you.
I shared one of my situations two years ago on here and you want to know what I got for it? One person who posts regularly, gave me the
emoticon several times while blaming me for being raped because I didn't report it. I think that same person even asked if it was really rape since I didn't report it. Someone else who also posts regularly here, decided to save my post for whatever twisted bullshit reasons they had and then reposted it in a different thread earlier this year, in a very weak attempt to make a point that had nothing to do with what that thread was about. So, ladies, while I applaud you for coming out and sharing your survivor stories here, always know that your posts will be saved and quote mined in the future and that there are rape apologists on this site who will, no doubt blame you for what you went through.
It's a shitty thing when a sexual assault happens. No one should ever have to go through that sort of ordeal, let alone be made to feel like absolute crap simply because they didn't report it. To be called a liar or have your experience treated as though you deserved it or to have your experience thrown back in your face - no one deserves that. Only the scum of the earth would think to stoop low enough to use your experiences against you or blame you for what happened to you.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
