[Serious] Please convince me gender is binary

[LastPoet]

No, not at all.  But to establish norms, you have to look at the numbers.  There are some great dads-- I was one of them, I think, taking care of my daughter starting about 4 months, while my wife worked her teaching job.  Then she'd come home, and I'd go off to my evening job and she'd take over baby duties.  Tough life, tbh, but very rewarding.  But that required a lot of technology-- breast pumps, good refrigeration, formula foods, and so on.  Without those, baby would last about a week with mommy gone so much until it wasted away and ceased to exist.

And diapers, a shitload of them. It is rewarding indeed.