How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?

[Angrboda]

This reminds me of the question of whether and when to disclose that you have a mental illness to someone. Are you engaged in deceit if you don't tell them? What about an employer? And what about polyamory? Does a polyamorous person have an obligation to disclose? If a polyamorous person discloses, and it gets back to their employer, they could be terminated without cause. Yet the polyamorous that I've talked to believe in disclosing up front. Some of these questions are tricky, and there's often good and conflicting reasons for both sides.

If I found out someone I was making out with was trans, it would depend on if they were MtF or FtM. If they were FtM, I might be less interested. If they were FtM, I'd probably be even more turned on.

I have some kink that isn't fully explored.