RE: How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?
March 14, 2019 at 9:13 am
(This post was last modified: March 14, 2019 at 9:30 am by The Grand Nudger.)
Yeah, that's another good example. In your specific case you may have unexplored kink but..as far as the hypothetical incident itself...I don't know that it represents an ounce of kink at all. Presumably, a guy gets handy because he likes to touch pretty things. I can't help but quote one of my favorite short stories.
I remember a girl in germany that I met one night at a bar. She was drinking me under the table. Pretty, too. Not knowing the laws over thur it had never occurred to me that she might not be what I considered of age. She wasn't exactly offering up the deets on her birthday either. Assumptions, alcohol, things got handy. Personally, the thought of reaching down and finding some underage vag is more knee-jerk repulsive than an of age dick. So obviously that didn't work out after I found out - but how out of place does the idea that she somehow violated me seem in that context? Or, for that matter, that there was something kinky about it had we pursued the relationship further? Could've gone the other way, coulda leaned in. Thing just had to end more for the fact that it could get me in trouble than anything else. Just for completeness, what about the idea that I would have felt so violated and angry that I slapped the girl?
My life took a different arc, happily married and tons of kids later I wouldn't go back and change things...but you never know, could have been the love of my life that I rejected for murky or cynical reasons. I haven't exactly forgotten her, after all, and I can't even remember the names of other girls that made a good run at a lifelong relationship with me. I mean, if I really had to pin it down, yeah it could have gotten me into shit - but was that really the deciding vote or was it the fact that she shared my sisters name, which also featured prominently in consideration....right, lol?
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I remember a girl in germany that I met one night at a bar. She was drinking me under the table. Pretty, too. Not knowing the laws over thur it had never occurred to me that she might not be what I considered of age. She wasn't exactly offering up the deets on her birthday either. Assumptions, alcohol, things got handy. Personally, the thought of reaching down and finding some underage vag is more knee-jerk repulsive than an of age dick. So obviously that didn't work out after I found out - but how out of place does the idea that she somehow violated me seem in that context? Or, for that matter, that there was something kinky about it had we pursued the relationship further? Could've gone the other way, coulda leaned in. Thing just had to end more for the fact that it could get me in trouble than anything else. Just for completeness, what about the idea that I would have felt so violated and angry that I slapped the girl?
My life took a different arc, happily married and tons of kids later I wouldn't go back and change things...but you never know, could have been the love of my life that I rejected for murky or cynical reasons. I haven't exactly forgotten her, after all, and I can't even remember the names of other girls that made a good run at a lifelong relationship with me. I mean, if I really had to pin it down, yeah it could have gotten me into shit - but was that really the deciding vote or was it the fact that she shared my sisters name, which also featured prominently in consideration....right, lol?
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