How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?

[Yonadav]

If the issue is consent...and it must be if this is a rape, then that's what would count.  Had a surprise penis therefore Mr. Handy was raped, is, imo, dodgy.

I think we can all agree that it's best practice to mention surprise penis, and that some things stand out as more notable than others and that not all mentionable things are the same things..still.  The rape angle seems extreme, to me, and a burden not shared by other things that could be just as important to consent.

I changed it to molesting. If a guy doesn't want someone rubbing their penis up against them, that pretty much means any penis. Even the penis of someone who looks like a woman and led him to believe that there would be no penis. I'm sure that most women would agree that someone who rubs their junk up against them on some sort of false pretext is molesting them.