RE: How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?
March 15, 2019 at 5:16 pm
(March 15, 2019 at 2:05 pm)Gae Bolga Wrote: If the issue is consent...and it must be if this is a rape, then that's what would count. Had a surprise penis therefore Mr. Handy was raped, is, imo, dodgy.
I think we can all agree that it's best practice to mention surprise penis, and that some things stand out as more notable than others and that not all mentionable things are the same things..still. The rape angle seems extreme, to me, and a burden not shared by other things that could be just as important to consent.
The earlier example I offered of finding myself getting drunk with and feeling up a girl that would be underage in the states (and in my mind) seems to be similar in every relevant way, and it's hard for me to think of her as a rapist.
I mean you can't be raped unless there's sexual intercourse. In any scenario where someone had unexpected genitals and had actual sex with you, I'd call it rape. Anything short of that is just shady, not rapey.
