(April 9, 2019 at 5:45 pm)Losty Wrote:I didn't either do you know why? because people like you will not consider a child could ever push a mentally ill adult over the edge. otherwise you would demand that the state take control of every parent who does not think or react as you do. which is a can of worms no one wants opened.(April 9, 2019 at 2:39 pm)Drich Wrote: not babies 8 year old twins..
we had a foster child who was 6 and said if she did not get abc from us she would tell her teachers we beat her. we said no you will not get abc, then threw her self off the bed onto a tile floor then started to smash her head into the tile before we could stop her. she did have a shadow around her eyes like she had been hit. Thankfully this was all caught n a nanny cam, then another time got a snip of the dogs ear "because he (the dog) knows why.." put the cat in the drier, put a knife in the seat cushions facing up (thought it was funny to see someone st on a steak knife) then around a counselor was the she little abused girl.
Evil knows no age limit even if accountability does..
If this little girl knew how to work the case workers and the system to manipulate her fosters, then it is well with the grasp of a pair of like minded kids to learn how to push the buttons of a lady on the brink of suicide.
Most people think my kids would never therefore no kids could.. wrong on both accounts. There is this hidden camera show that put kids in situations and their reaction absolutely shocked their parents. meaning most kids live a double life. they are the little retards when mommy and daddy are around and Tony Soprano when left alone.
I can't be sure in this situation of course, but again the mom lived just fine (did not kill herself) up until 8 years after these two where born and not a year goes by another lady this one lives 60 or 70 years without causing harm to others or killing herself, get mixed in with these two boys and within a year tries to kill both of them and her self.
Again the only thing both murder and suicide people have in common where the twins. either the twins brought out evil or where the embodiment of it and G-ma was trying to save the world from it. Not to say she could have been crazy, but again it takes want and desire to push a crazy person that far.
My dad was that sort of crazy and I knew even at a young age how to make him go into a blind rage which would probably mean him killing allof us. We also knew how to defuse or avoid. Those kids stepped on the gas with G-ma rage whether they knew she would kill them or just her self is another matter. a kid who grows up crazy learns fast how to survive or become fuel for the crazy people. either way at 8 they where smart enough to not throw gas on the fire of crazy grandma.
There is no blame here. I am simply accounting to contributing factors that build up and push people over the edge. as I posted to losty @8 years old these kids knew how to manipulate. you naive or just plain stupid if you think they where not smart enough of mature enough to understand how to make a crazy grandma even more crazy, maybe even push her over the edge like mom.
Again not blame as they are under the age of accountability so again not blaming them but realistically counting contributing factors that push people over the edge of sanity/rational thinking.
I didn’t see anything in the article that would give you any reason to believe that these were problem children. Even if they were, it wasn’t their fault. Children are completely blameless and innocent. I don’t believe in evil anyway, but there’s no such thing as a bad child. Only bad grown ups. That poor little baby you fostered needed help. I truly hope she found someone to love her and get her the help she needed after she left your home.
Just that you would even consider placing blame on a baby is so disgusting, Drich.
but again I am not blaming the children as they are under the age of accountablity. can you trun you emotion off long enought to understand what that means? to not be accountable means there is no blame. however it does not mean those kids where not the primary source or even just the straw that broke the camels back.