(April 10, 2019 at 10:55 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote:(April 10, 2019 at 10:38 am)Drich Wrote:
Again I am not blaming the children... not the bible not the courts.. I do not hold them responsible for anything because they are under the age of accountablity. again that said I am also saying @ 8 years old they cold very well be cognisant enough to push a mentally ill mother to suicide, and again if the mother was ill it could very well be her mother also genetically shared the same illness. which again a set of twins could be smart enough to trigger.
If the subject weren't so serious, it'd be almost amusing how you repeatedly say you're not blaming the kids, then you go right ahead and blame them.
I'm no specialist, but you might be clinically insane.
Boru
your post is the reason I tried to show you monkey uncles the difference between blame and identifying source.
Blame indicates there is a consequence or to be held accountable for a action.
Again I am not calling for the kids to be held accountable for anything.
However I am pointing out that the kids where two strong common variables known to be present in both murder suicide attempt and the successful suicide.
Blames says let find out who did this and hold them accountable, identify the kids as a possible reason is no different than finding out why a wing broke off a plane with no one at fault.
Maybe is people such as yourself where no so closed minded things like this would be less apt to happen. you are so worried about how you look coming off identifying the kids as two common variables in both deaths, that you would be more apt letting a similar scenario happen again. rather than saying these two were apart of the mother suicide maybe we should put them through a screening process to make sure they themselves are not mentally ill or defective in someway.