If anyone wants my two cents and they still have a parents, make sure they write everything down.
from how they want their hair parted in the casket to who gets the truck to who gets the change in the junk drawer to where the will is to where the keys to everything is to a list of investment debts and the like.. even if it is not an official will at least ther last intentions will be known. everything else is up for debate. the more sibbling the more arguing their will be. Dad would want this... dad told me he wanted that... dad told me he did not care.... oh, dad cares and want something else but did want us to be bothered.. on everything. To the point where it's hard to grieve and morn. just endless bickering.. when a simple letter/instrucion list would have answered everything.
from how they want their hair parted in the casket to who gets the truck to who gets the change in the junk drawer to where the will is to where the keys to everything is to a list of investment debts and the like.. even if it is not an official will at least ther last intentions will be known. everything else is up for debate. the more sibbling the more arguing their will be. Dad would want this... dad told me he wanted that... dad told me he did not care.... oh, dad cares and want something else but did want us to be bothered.. on everything. To the point where it's hard to grieve and morn. just endless bickering.. when a simple letter/instrucion list would have answered everything.
