A.S.K. your way to proof.

[Bucky Ball]

So basically it's a deal. A business deal. 

if you were ever to choose a wife would you then see it as a business deal as well?
what about a friend?
have you ever decided that a friend isn't really a friend and he/she is just using you and you end the relationship?

Same process sport. you decide whether or not on one level or another if a person is compatible. here you are doing the same with a system of belief. or are you just a lemming made to follow the one infront of you hell or high water?

You don't get to decide what the nature of Reality is.

I 'got' a one on one relationship with God, the promise of eternal salvation and my undeserved prosperous life, and an over all contentment with the roll i have been assigned to.

And you fell for that line ? LOL
The relationship you have is with the fantasy in your head. You have no promise of eternal anything. "Salvation " was cooked up by the early church.
Jesus did not preach "salvation". Jesus was a Jew. Jews did not believe dead people go to heaven.
 

Love neighbor as self which for me= to help people like you with the truth of God's word, and to love God with all of my being= turn from a love of sin, and do what i can/understand to live as best i can in service to God..

you assumed no answer or a complicated one?

what is so hard to understand the golden rules?
Love God with all your being
love neighbor as yourself?

Actually Jesus said "Whatever you do the LEAST of these, you do to ME" .... whenever you insult people here, you are insulting Jesus ... clearly you love insulting people with all your being, not a god.
You insult Jesus all the time, as he said. You're the perfect example of a hypocrite.

Religion isn't a choose your own adventure book .It has very real metaphysical and  consequences many of which a totally incompatible .One of you is wrong and the other is right , And you have no means of telling a Buddhist you got it right .

Wrong again. You could both be wrong. 
BTW You just contradicted yourself. First you say it was/is a choice (see above) and here you say the opposite. Which is it, *sport* ? 

if you can not provide an example or proof/context then there is no further point to continue this discussion.

If you *cannot* spell the word "cannot" correctly, there is no reason to continue, as you obviously lack even a 5th Grade education.
I have no reason to discuss anything with a clearly ignorant fool.