[Serious] Relationships: Finding your perfect match and then losing them.

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Give a dating site a whirl, match, ashley madison, grinder,.................

I don't think promoting Ashley Madison is a good idea. For one thing, it's built on facilitating affairs between married people, which wouldn't bother me as much if not for the fact that this seems to be the exact opposite situation the OP is in. For another, literally everything I've heard about AM suggests there's an absurdly high male-to-female ratio of the user base. Even without the morally eyebrow-raising gimmick, this cannot bode well for your chances.