RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
October 17, 2020 at 4:35 pm
(October 17, 2020 at 3:40 pm)WinterHold Wrote:(October 17, 2020 at 3:15 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: If you have to resort to a link that means you can't explain it.
The link is to prove what I'm saying; in other words "proving to you that what I'm saying has a real background scientifically".
(October 17, 2020 at 5:18 am)Sal Wrote: Have you met your 'mate' yet, @WinterHold ?
I'm of the opinion that this culture that you have to have a SO to be happy is an insult to all those who are simply happy without a SO. We're all so bloody varied that there are plenty of people who are fine by their lonesome, romantically speaking, and still be a part of a Community. There does exist something called asexuality, ya know.
Asexual people are a minority, I didn't find verses in the Quran that targets them. Actually I think that it's a mental disorder inflicted by shame or hate of sex:
Quote:With regard to sexual orientation categories, asexuality may be argued as not being a meaningful category to add to the continuum, and instead argued as the lack of a sexual orientation or sexuality.[5] Other arguments propose that asexuality is the denial of one's natural sexuality, and that it is a disorder caused by shame of sexuality, anxiety or sexual abuse, sometimes basing this belief on asexuals who masturbate or occasionally engage in sexual activity simply to please a romantic partner.[5][22][24] Within the context of sexual orientation identity politics, asexuality may pragmatically fulfill the political function of a sexual orientation identity category.[27]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality..._and_cause
For me personally, I didn't find my mate yet. But all I know is that I should keep searching.
Don’t fret. I’m sure he’s out there.
Boru
‘I can’t be having with this.’ - Esmeralda Weatherwax