[Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men

[Abaddon_ire]

Pre-divorce, my relationship with my ex-wife was very, very far from tranquil. Post- divorce, my life has never been more tranquil.

That you don't know these kind of things makes me think that you are very young, or an incel.

In either case, grow the fuck up.

I don't know about your experience, but I expect that you didn't find the right woman.

No such mythical person exists. That you think that is true is how I know you are young.

If every woman makes every man happy, then there won't be any problems regarding tranquility in mates.

It's the womans job to make her man happy? That is a repulsive ideology.

I might be young, but I know very well that I need to choose my mate like I'm choosing a second body of mine; i.e she must be extremely compatible with me, I expect her to do the same and validate me very carefully.

My ex was compatible at the outset. But people change. So she became more religious and I became more atheist over time. We started from a position of not being particularly committed. Religion caused the problem. People like you. You really are clueless.

At this point, I do not mind discussing interpersonal marriage stuff, because as far as I am concerned, the bitch can go die in a fire. Both of my kids are now atheist of their own volition. The eldest (now an adult) will be appointed shortly as executor of my will.

Better than getting involved, having kids, then cut them and scar them for life between fighting parents who aren't compatible.

Except I know from experience that this is a load. My kids have keys to my home and are rounded individuals. So I know you are young. You are clueless how the real world works.