Mehmet. Really.
There's a guy I'm talking to right now that I'm DYING to hop in bed with, and even though I adore him and very much can't wait and he's a wonderful person and all that jazz, there are nights when I don't consider it because I have a migraine (ever had one of those?) or my asthma is making me suffer, or I have so much schoolwork that if he were there I would have to politely decline. And this is someone who never fails to get me hot and bothered, mind. I still have the right to refuse on any reason I like - and I don't have to give that reason. It isn't his right to demand anything from me.
That said, getting married to someone doesn't magically make you both entirely in accord with whoever you marry. Maybe you've got this very narrow definition of rape. Any time a woman (or man) says "No" and the other partner continues regardless, it is rape. End of story. The partner may have never been malicious or in any way harmful before. It could be as simple as an utter disregard for their partner's wishes. So yes - it could be that suddenly.
There's a guy I'm talking to right now that I'm DYING to hop in bed with, and even though I adore him and very much can't wait and he's a wonderful person and all that jazz, there are nights when I don't consider it because I have a migraine (ever had one of those?) or my asthma is making me suffer, or I have so much schoolwork that if he were there I would have to politely decline. And this is someone who never fails to get me hot and bothered, mind. I still have the right to refuse on any reason I like - and I don't have to give that reason. It isn't his right to demand anything from me.
That said, getting married to someone doesn't magically make you both entirely in accord with whoever you marry. Maybe you've got this very narrow definition of rape. Any time a woman (or man) says "No" and the other partner continues regardless, it is rape. End of story. The partner may have never been malicious or in any way harmful before. It could be as simple as an utter disregard for their partner's wishes. So yes - it could be that suddenly.
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