I think the point he is trying to make is any decent guy would understand if you have a migraine, or are not feeling it for any reason, and will accept that fact and go bust one into the toilet instead. (Been there)
If he is a good guy, there will be no spousal rape. You just don't become a rapist after x years of marriage, IMO. No means no. Alcohol I can see being a huge factor in spousal rape though. But alcohol is another whole beast of fucky.
Yes there is spousal rape. There is domestic abuse.
Solution = Don't marry a douche bag, know who u are dating, any signs that they are a creeper, bail.
If he is a good guy, there will be no spousal rape. You just don't become a rapist after x years of marriage, IMO. No means no. Alcohol I can see being a huge factor in spousal rape though. But alcohol is another whole beast of fucky.
Yes there is spousal rape. There is domestic abuse.
Solution = Don't marry a douche bag, know who u are dating, any signs that they are a creeper, bail.