Whether they find out or not, your causing harm to your relationship and yourself and likely upsetting anyone else who knows. A friend of mine committed adultery (numerous)and I told him not to tell me anymore as I felt guilty whenever I saw his wife.
Suppose what I'm saying is at the very least you're harming yourself, which will affect the relationship and have a knock on affect, at worst(partner still not finding out) innocents who know and feel guilty about knowing, so either way you're doing damage, whether you tell someone or not.
Suppose what I'm saying is at the very least you're harming yourself, which will affect the relationship and have a knock on affect, at worst(partner still not finding out) innocents who know and feel guilty about knowing, so either way you're doing damage, whether you tell someone or not.
