(November 2, 2011 at 7:32 pm)5thHorseman Wrote: Whether they find out or not, your causing harm to your relationship and yourself and likely upsetting anyone else who knows. A friend of mine committed adultery (numerous)and I told him not to tell me anymore as I felt guilty whenever I saw his wife.
Suppose what I'm saying is at the very least you're harming yourself, which will affect the relationship and have a knock on affect, at worst(partner still not finding out) innocents who know and feel guilty about knowing, so either way you're doing damage, whether you tell someone or not.
Not really following how it necessarily causes harm to the individual, I have seen people who cheat and it doesn't even seem to make them think twice. Secondly, why is it morally wrong to cause harm to one's self? That seems like that would make all sorts of things morally wrong, smoking, tattoos, eating burgers, drinking, piercings, abortion, playing football, homosexuality, wrestling, and the list goes on and on....
