I would suggest that you look inward and see what games you are willing to engage in then use your own ruleset to engage with the world to win the games you are willing to play.
There are many considerations to account for though:
Do something, even if it is wrong. We learn by doing; failure can be a great teacher.
Everyone is the hero of their own story. So, be careful that you aren't skewed in your judgement of yourself.
Some people are just toxic and you should avoid them. Even if you are related to them.
As for "getting the girl" well you need to do something to increase your value and there are many avenues for that depending on your strengths.
Try to avoid virtue signaling. If you hold a virtue then express it when it makes sense, act on it when you are compelled, and avoid trying to use signaling to win some pussy.
There are no easy answers, and many of the short cuts you might have heard of are grifts used by cons so they can win their game.
There are many considerations to account for though:
Do something, even if it is wrong. We learn by doing; failure can be a great teacher.
Everyone is the hero of their own story. So, be careful that you aren't skewed in your judgement of yourself.
Some people are just toxic and you should avoid them. Even if you are related to them.
As for "getting the girl" well you need to do something to increase your value and there are many avenues for that depending on your strengths.
Try to avoid virtue signaling. If you hold a virtue then express it when it makes sense, act on it when you are compelled, and avoid trying to use signaling to win some pussy.
There are no easy answers, and many of the short cuts you might have heard of are grifts used by cons so they can win their game.
