(November 3, 2011 at 10:07 pm)Phaedra Wrote: Gotta love the victim blaming going on in this thread. "Why'd you marry an asshole in the first place?" Does it fucking matter?
Because some who aren't blinded by love and do not understand find it difficult to emphasize with someone making, and the sticking with, a critically flawed decision (i.e. stupid).
Unfortunately, that does little help for the love sick, even though most of the time, if they were to heed the other's warnings, they'd leave such broken relationships.
Love makes humans stupid.
It also makes them annoyingly tenacious, upbeat and positive.
What do you want? To make incredible mistakes that may cost you your life, or never have the opportunity to make those mistakes... or even triumphs.
Many people try their hand at the former. Some people choose the latter. And the rest of us are, unfortunately, occupying the latter state due to lack of applicable mates, personal issues, etc,.
Slave to the Patriarchy no more
