There was nothing smug about what I wrote. I honestly thought you were being a man and owning up to some of the blame. Now I understand that you were simply saying whatever you thought would get me to drop the subject. I find this behaviour repulsive.
People apologise because they have something to apologise for; they have something to feel sorry about, and want to rectify it. People apologise because it is the right thing to do. People who apologise just to "stop the fucking arguing" aren't doing it right.
You can drop it if you want; I've done nothing wrong towards you that merits an apology; all of my wrongs were aimed at bozo, and I've apologised for them. I'm not going to drop it; as far as I'm concerned, you wronged me, and then when I finally got an apology and said it was "gracious" of you, you turned around and explained how it wasn't an apology after all.
People apologise because they have something to apologise for; they have something to feel sorry about, and want to rectify it. People apologise because it is the right thing to do. People who apologise just to "stop the fucking arguing" aren't doing it right.
You can drop it if you want; I've done nothing wrong towards you that merits an apology; all of my wrongs were aimed at bozo, and I've apologised for them. I'm not going to drop it; as far as I'm concerned, you wronged me, and then when I finally got an apology and said it was "gracious" of you, you turned around and explained how it wasn't an apology after all.