[Serious] That Trans Thread

[arewethereyet]

Being fairly old school when it comes to work stuff, I now have to stop and think about how I have to write the greeting in a letter. Years ago I switched from Miss or Mrs. to Ms. to be safe. Now I don't know what the heck to do. I don't like opening a letter with someone's first name when it is someone I have never met or spoken with...I am aware it's a thing...I am just trying to be polite. I'm thinking 'Hey You' is a bit too casual.

I am only acquainted with one person IRL who is pretty adamant about their pronouns.