Catholic Church and the Oral Sex
Quote:Pope Pius XII taught that it is gravely immoral for the husband, nor the wife do perform any sexual act to climax, outside of the natural marital act. The wife may not perform oral sex (fellatio) on her husband to climax. The husband may not perform oral sex on his wife to climax. In both cases, the couple sin gravely.
It is often claimed, especially online, that the wife can climax before or after natural marital relations, as a result of oral, anal, or manual sex (or "stimulation"). But that claim is a grave error. First, the Church has never taught such a thing. No proponent of that claim ever quotes or cites a magisterial document saying anything like that. Second, as you can see from the quote above, the Church has taught the exact opposite. Neither the husband nor the wife can climax outside of the natural marital act.
Third, everyone agrees that oral sex on either spouse is a grave sin, done in isolation from the marital sexual act. So it would make no sense to say that a gravely immoral act becomes moral when done a certain number of minutes or hours before natural marital relations, and immoral for a longer length of time. In Catholic moral theology, when an act is a grave sin on its own, it never becomes moral by being done about the same time as another good act.
- Catechism of the Catholic Church
Make no mistake, the so called oral and anal sex acts, pornography exalts is immoral and soul-crushing. These are certainly sins to be confessed. If we implement these perverse acts in our married life, we not only run the risk of losing our own soul to eternal damnation but also our beloved spouse and children.
Now let me state a few things bluntly so that we leave no room for doubt. During oral stimulation, if either or both spouses intend it to bring about ejaculation apart from intercourse, the behaviour becomes sodomy and is morally unacceptable.
If an unintentional ejaculation happens outside the vagina, the couple should make the act procreative by placing the semen in her while the semen is still viable. However, if a couple is prone to accidental ejaculations outside of her, they should be prudent, as this could be a near occasion for sin.
Those who have premature ejaculation or those who have no reasonable control over ejaculation should use discretion in choosing oral stimulation during foreplay, as it could be a near occasion for sin.
- Dr. Nelson Thomas
teachings of the Bible are so muddled and self-contradictory that it was possible for Christians to happily burn heretics alive for five long centuries. It was even possible for the most venerated patriarchs of the Church, like St. Augustine and St. Thomas Aquinas, to conclude that heretics should be tortured (Augustine) or killed outright (Aquinas). Martin Luther and John Calvin advocated the wholesale murder of heretics, apostates, Jews, and witches. - Sam Harris, "Letter To A Christian Nation"
