(November 1, 2023 at 5:56 pm)Fake Messiah Wrote:My mother was not then, nor is she now, a Catholic.(November 1, 2023 at 5:46 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: I am not a fan of trading the needs of some people for preaching. But if someone is hungry or in need and there's nowhere else to turn, I'd rather a person get a meal now and again.
Back in the day I had to go to the food pantry at the Catholic church because my child needed to be fed and there was no place else to go. Also, after being written off by my parents when I got pregnant with my first, Catholic Charities gave me a crib and some other supplies that I needed desperately. Would I rather not have had to resort to baby blankets made by old Catholic ladies? Yeah, but the bottom line is sometimes you do what you have to do to survive.
I am not so high and mighty that I can't accept help when it's offered. Now I try to give back.
Ok, but were you not written off by your parents when you got pregnant because of the Catholic Church? Because of the prejudices they taught your parents to have for women in these situations?
The issue was not living up to socio/economic expectations in my parents' peer group.
“If you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room.” — Confucius