(November 8, 2023 at 8:49 pm)Ravenshire Wrote:(November 8, 2023 at 3:29 am)FrustratedFool Wrote: Do people in longterm monogamous relationships not think they'd be happier and more fulfilled if they also had sex with beautiful people whenever they wanted (and it not affect their relationship)?
If my entire life revolved around having a place to put my dick, then maybe.
But, it doesn't.
Why does it have to be your entire life? That seems nonsensical to me.
For example, my interest in sex is lower than most people's. However, it just seems obviously true to me that if I had a stable monogamous relationship then my sexual fulfillment would be increased by also having the option of a BJ from beautiful strangers anytime I wanted. Even for someone with as low a libido as me, I still want sex every now and again, and the option of variety, choice of time and place etc, seems clearly preferable to having less of those things. More is more.
