I think you handled the situation the best way you could! Like you said, anything you said would have offended them anyway so I wouldn't worry about that, all you can do is try to be as respectful as possible. I feel sorry for your friend, may I ask how old she is?
Cher
"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley