Golden rule? Fuck that nonsense.
My dad wouldn't like you to call him beautiful during sex, would hate you nibbling on his neck, and definitely does not want your dick in him...
I, on the other hand, would be having the time of my life.
So I don't do to other people what I'd like done to me.
I also do not want you to beat me into the ground and call me a dirty whore. But someone does. I don't want a horse to fuck me, but someone does.
...
Point: you can't base your interaction with other people solely off of what you yourself would appreciate being done (or not being done) to you.
What a selfish and egocentric worldview.
My dad wouldn't like you to call him beautiful during sex, would hate you nibbling on his neck, and definitely does not want your dick in him...
I, on the other hand, would be having the time of my life.
So I don't do to other people what I'd like done to me.
I also do not want you to beat me into the ground and call me a dirty whore. But someone does. I don't want a horse to fuck me, but someone does.
...
Point: you can't base your interaction with other people solely off of what you yourself would appreciate being done (or not being done) to you.
What a selfish and egocentric worldview.
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day