RE: Morality: Where do you get yours?
May 11, 2012 at 10:47 am
(This post was last modified: May 11, 2012 at 11:44 am by Creed of Heresy.)
(May 10, 2012 at 11:27 pm)Violet Lilly Blossom Wrote: Golden rule? Fuck that nonsense.
My dad wouldn't like you to call him beautiful during sex, would hate you nibbling on his neck, and definitely does not want your dick in him...
I, on the other hand, would be having the time of my life.
So I don't do to other people what I'd like done to me.
I also do not want you to beat me into the ground and call me a dirty whore. But someone does. I don't want a horse to fuck me, but someone does.
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Point: you can't base your interaction with other people solely off of what you yourself would appreciate being done (or not being done) to you.
What a selfish and egocentric worldview.
Of course you can. You imply that it has to be a universal constant that if you want it, therefore you should do it. But I mean...I highly doubt you want to sleep with your father. Therefore that entire analogy holds no bearing because none of those actions would happen anyway.
See, you would be having the time of your life...but would you be having the time of your life if that individual was your father? Apply the golden rule at THAT point, the point of sleeping with your father, not the latter point, and that argument becomes needless.
...Which begs the question. Would you WANT your father to sleep with you? Even if the answer is "Yes," the question then becomes "would your father want to sleep with you?" If yes...
...well...have fun with that...I guess? o___o
But if no...if either side says "no," then it becomes a matter of rape, of lack of consent. And then THAT, too, ties to the Golden Rule; would you want someone to do something against your will? I HIGHLY doubt it. Ergo, do not go against their will.
The Golden Rule is not about picking and choosing. It is an aspect of ALL decisions. It sounds simple. But in practice, not so much. Egocentric and selfish? Not even slightly.
(May 11, 2012 at 10:44 am)jess_essential Wrote: For anyone to follow any type of list of rules made by anyone, other than yourself, is foolish. I will not say that I have morals, because humans are morally bankrupt. However, as I've said, I treat people well because I would like to be treated well. And when I am not being treated well, I act accordingly.
I would argue against humans being morally bankrupt, actually, if only because we have nothing else to compare it to. We've yet to encounter aliens, or any other fully sapient race, that we can compare our own moral codes against. Morality is ultimately a measure of knowing right from wrong and given that I can walk down the street and see every human being I come across NOT assaulting one another or stealing shit from one another points to most humans being of at least decent moral standing, if not high moral standing. I also understand that human beings do have a selfish basis in everything, but is that wrong? No. Selfishness is inevitable in everything we do, even if pursuit of self-satisfaction is not the goal, we are still given it in some way no matter what. Selfishness is not bad; it's when you are selfish at the malign, intended cost of others around you that it is bad and therefore immoral.