Would you have sex with a shemale?

[Violet]

@Shelly: Good, just checking that I wasn't forgotten

You assume that all blanket statements are incorrect. Andrej Pejic is clearly breathtakingly hot- but I can't see his penis from that picture.

Notation: you are also unlikely to see a penis from the doggystyle position.

And also: no, I very clearly did not assume that all blanket statements were incorrect, note:

Violet: "I would remind that blanket statements or especially generalized statements regarding something you have not yet experienced can make one look like a retard."

I made extra extra sure that word was in there before I posted it.

In the situation, I can't know what I would actually do. But as a distant onlooker, the thought of a penis other than my own involved in sex repulses me. That's a blanket statement, but it's one that I can make because I've never been attracted to penises, no matter what they are attached to. To me, they're a massive turn-off. I'm not telling you how to live your life. I gave an opinion of how I would most likely react.

Question then: how do you feel about strapons?

edited: I added in this bit that I forgot, sorry if you respond before you read it.

I'm not telling you how to live your life... I am suggesting that you did not think what you said through, sharing my experiences for your benefit on the topic you brought up, and providing you with my opinion that what is between someone's legs shouldn't matter... especially if everything else about them works for you. Are they Christian? Does that matter if the rest of them is good enough for you? Do they have pockmarks from removing warts when they were 12? So what if they weren't 100% perfect... is it like you were ever going to find someone who was? Are they 'overweight'? Like the rest... if you like someone for most of what they offer: is it worth dwelling on the small (large ) part of them you don't like?

I don't care how many men you've slept with who've been fine with it, that doesn't mean the same applies to me. Who's making blanket statements now? You may as well have said that because several men "work around" a penis, anyone who says they would do otherwise is clueless to their sexual identity.

Try not to misuse the term 'blanket statement'. That could also make you look like a retard

And again, I'm covered:

"I've been with a bunch of straight men, and my having a penis was something *to work around*"

I provided my experiences and shared them with you for your consideration. You will also notice the statement immediately following it about legs.

And no, I said nothing of the sort. I suggested only that it is something you can probably get over if the rest of the package is up to your standards (As a missing left leg might be... savvy?).

Finally yes: being unwilling to consider that you might find a (man or) woman sexy before you get into her pants does sound very much like cluelessness about your sexual identity. You tell me that a penis is a dealbreaker... I hear "the computer looks fantastic and runs smoothly but doesn't have a disc drive. Yeah I've heard about stuff like filesharing over the wifi, but it's got to be a disk drive or no deal."

It just sounds so, oh yes... I do believe you used the term yourself:

It's arrogant to assume that you know what I prefer better than I do, and it's insulting.

Oh you're insulted? Boo hoo... try reading this thread from my perspective. Go on: read that first post, the one I responded to, I'll save you the effort and link it here:

Most likely not, if by shemale you mean a male who takes estrogen and resembles a female but still possesses a penis. I'm not gay, not that it really matters. I fully support gay rights, I'm just not interested in sex with a person who is physically a dude.

If a person of the male sex had trans-gender surgery to become, for all intents and purposes, female, then yes, I would have sex with aforementioned person.

My gods but does that piss me off, and in more ways than 6.