RE: Is one of the reasons people believe in God is a need for a father figure?
June 14, 2012 at 6:08 pm
(June 14, 2012 at 6:01 pm)hoppimike Wrote:(June 14, 2012 at 5:53 pm)Annik Wrote: As a female atheist who used to be religious, I already had a father. I certainly didn't need 2. I just wishes that there was someone looking out for me or whatever. Your hypothesis kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth (please don't this the wrong way).
I know, I honestly didn't want to be sexist (I am really not a sexist person). And I also didn't aim this at one gender as such, even though I did mention women.
Perhaps "father figure" is unnecessary wording. "Parent" would probably do to be honest. Like a protecting figure that means you're never alone, never have to be scared, etc.
Maybe that's a better way of putting it
Indeed. I'd use protector or parental figure over that wording, if your intention was to keep things neutral. Glad this was hammered out. :3
From that point of view, I'm inclined to agree. I think people want to feel like someone has their back. If a god has a plan for them, then certainly the suffering is worth it, ect (even though hanging a lake of fire over their heads would be pretty abusive). They want to believe that bad things happen for a reason. It's all about remaining comfortable.