Stimbo, if you really want to carry on with this just come out and say so.
There's no sense in saying you don't want to be a martyr, you want to forgive and move on if you're just going to go back and ruminate over all this.
Are you expecting something from me? Do you think you will accomplish anything by browbeating all of us into sympathy/guilt? Or browbeating me into grovelling?
If you are still smarting over it, and you are mad at me, just vent and lash out at me. If you want to talk, we have our PMs. You're invited to add me to Skype.
But don't say you've let go and then keep picking at the scab and going back to the issue.
There's no sense in saying you don't want to be a martyr, you want to forgive and move on if you're just going to go back and ruminate over all this.
Are you expecting something from me? Do you think you will accomplish anything by browbeating all of us into sympathy/guilt? Or browbeating me into grovelling?
If you are still smarting over it, and you are mad at me, just vent and lash out at me. If you want to talk, we have our PMs. You're invited to add me to Skype.
But don't say you've let go and then keep picking at the scab and going back to the issue.
