What do you do when life gets you down

[festive1]

What's helped me a lot is to realize that "good enough" is, of course, good enough. To me before it always felt as though "good enough" was never good enough. I had feelings of inadequacy that I think were partly due to believing that adequacy wasn't adequate. I wanted to be more than "adequate". I thought that I wasn't ambitious enough if I believed that adequacy was good enough, I was confused.

For me, realizing "perfection" is a myth was a huge thing. No one is perfect, nothing is perfect. Everything is flawed in one way or another.

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actualy i dont drink alcohol during the week, but if i had a bad week it certainly adds to the amount i drink on the weekend.

i got arrest a lot of times for "public disturbance" (doing something stupid when drunk), happyly that is so common that it`s not being registered.
being arrested for drunkenes in germany isn`t that bad, you get to sleep out your intoxication and in the morning you get some aspirin, coffee and some apple strudel.

I have never been arrested. The thought of being arrested terrifies me. Loss of control... which is an illusion in and of itself, but the apple strudel sounds lovely!