Uganda passing law that allows them to put homosexuals to death.

[Aractus]

What you think is important because you are passing a moral judgement. You are claiming that your life choice is morally superior to hers. Friends accept each other as persons, even if they don't agree about their tastes or choices. Long story short, yes, you are belittling her, even if you claim you aren't.

She has every reason to be angry at you.

I never said she was angry at me. None of my gay friends ever had a problem with my views. Just as I didn't judge them for their views. That's why I used her as an example instead of them.

Then why are you judging her? Why do you have "a problem" with a life choice that doesn't involve you?

I've never told her what to do with her life, I'm not sure what you're getting at?

People don't need pity or compassion, they need acceptance. You have a patronizing attitude towards your friend. I don't doubt that you have good intentions, but you come across as judgemental and arrogant.

Yet she trusted me to tell me her sexuality while she was still "in the closet" to her family and most of her friends. If I'm as bad as you think I am, she would never tell me.