(January 23, 2013 at 12:33 pm)Celi Wrote: Really, I'm at a loss as to what I should do. My parents know about the trans part, but one of them flatly thinks I'm wrong and the other, when pressed, repeatedly claims he needs more time to think about it (they've known for something like 8 months). They won't let me get hormones. I'm tired of keeping all these things secret, but I don't know how or when or what I should come out as. And I'm not sure that I'm brave enough to actually go through with it anyway.
An acquaintance of mine has an offspring who has started the gender transition treatment from male to female - it's a very long and carefully monitored process. She is still in the Real Lfe Experience stage.
http://transgenderexplored.com/hormone.htm
As you'll see from the above article, it's not a simple case of rushing out and getting hormone treatment. Anyone wishing to go through the full process has to be 100% sure it's what they want because there's no going back after full surgery.
http://transgenderexplored.com/surgery.htm
The person concerned has to be 18 as well.
My advice, then, is to concentrate on getting an education and think of the procedure as a goal for the future. As for your father needing more time to think about it after 8 months, well, it can be difficult for parents to get their heads round the fact that a son is really a daughter or vice versa. My acquaintance accepted the news straight away but it still took her a long time to get used to it on an everyday level.
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