Every relationship is unique. Some are better than others. Some are sexual and volatile. Others are full of romance and sappy cliches.
I wouldn't go about trying to change, just let whatever change happen of it's own volition.
Instead of saying, "I'm going to change into a bad ass, hard core mother fucker," say, "I'm going to start considering different responses than I usually give," or "I think I'll start reconsidering my position on the events and incidents that take place in my life." Maybe you'll naturally find a new happy medium that gives you a new perspective without forcing some Mr. Hyde personality that isn't even real.
Oh and trust me, "tough guys and bad asses" are often in more pain than the typical "nice guys."
I wouldn't go about trying to change, just let whatever change happen of it's own volition.
Instead of saying, "I'm going to change into a bad ass, hard core mother fucker," say, "I'm going to start considering different responses than I usually give," or "I think I'll start reconsidering my position on the events and incidents that take place in my life." Maybe you'll naturally find a new happy medium that gives you a new perspective without forcing some Mr. Hyde personality that isn't even real.
Oh and trust me, "tough guys and bad asses" are often in more pain than the typical "nice guys."
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