Wow Stimbo, that sounds rough. I've been there so many times it makes me want to throw up just thinking about how my brain reeled inside my head trying to figure out the right course of events that would lead to my getting what I wanted. I have since realized that to be successful in courting women one must admit their feelings and see what happens. If you are shot down, smile and move on to the next potential. You might be reconsidered, but only in your absence. If you have any pull with this female it will only be realized by your moving away from her.
I could bang on about "nice guy" syndrome, expectations, and the horibbly debilitating sense of entitlement brought about by watching too many sitcoms and movies, but that wouldn't help you would it?
I could bang on about "nice guy" syndrome, expectations, and the horibbly debilitating sense of entitlement brought about by watching too many sitcoms and movies, but that wouldn't help you would it?