(February 2, 2013 at 10:05 am)Stimbo Wrote: She took me for a drink yesterday, to celebrate some good news she was over the Moon to hear, and a couple of Guinnesses and Baileys later we were like giddy schoolgirls. Basically we do pretty much everything that flirting couples do, short of actually being one. I do so completely respect that she has boundaries and that she doesn't want me to do the bloke thing of reading more into the situation than there is, yet I wish... oh I wish.Unless she's a lesbian (and apparently she isn't), you don't want to be a giddy schoolgirl around her. You need to learn how to be a man. Consider this:
http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/04/12/...should-do/
Note that being the shoulder-to-cry-on-giddy-schoolgirl type isn't bad per se. It's a matter of timing. You need to be a real man until you get the goods, or at least some of them. AFTER YOU ESTABLISH THE PHYSICAL SIDE you can start letting your natural effeminate personality come out. Not all at once though!
Also note that it's probably too late with this particular chick, and time spent with her is time you could spend with another one.
Sorry to be blunt (we all know that's a lie) but that's the way it is.
